Guest Blog by Aviva Pinto, CDFAŽ, CDS
You are divorcing. You have a million things to think and worry about. Your divorce professional (whether it be a matrimonial attorney, mediator, or collaborative lawyer) is asking for all kinds of information and documentation. You are worried about your kids ...
I donât know what you were streaming after your divorce, but I binge-watched HBOâs Sex and the City. The showâs iconic main characters - Carrie Bradshaw, Samantha Jones, Charlotte York, and Miranda Hobbes - were exactly who I needed to keep me company as I tried to wrap my head around being single ...
Most teenagers experience various physical and mental changes as they transition into adulthood. Add a significant event like a parentsâ divorce to the mix, and you may have a very explosive situation. News of a parentâs separation could bring additional stress and conflict into your family dynamic....
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Cathy lived a life that from the outside appeared completely successful with a beautiful home and thriving family business. The reality behind the facade told a different story.
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Cathy shares her early confusion about why she was so unhappy given the facade, her journey to understand her unm...
You have just come to an agreement on how to settle your divorce. You may be still reeling from the entire ordeal. Youâve had to make some major life decisions that affect you and your family. This can be exhausting and also feel like youâve been engulfed in a dark night of the soul.
Even now, itâs...
by Carol R. Hughes, Ph.D., LMFT, www.DivorcePeacemaking.com
The following are some tips for you as you prepare to talk with your adult children. You care about doing the best you can for your children because you are reading this article. Permit yourself not to be perfect. No one is. Remember to ke...
Guest Post By Robin Shaw
When going through divorce, we can feel so alone with our thoughts and feelings. Sometimes, we wonder who we can turn to, even if we have a life filled with friends and family who love us. Who will understand? How can we face these folks who have known us in a certain way all...
Guest Post by Kelley A. Joyce, MBA, CPC
The return to work is a massive milestone in your divorce journey. As a Career Development Coach, Iâve assisted hundreds of adults in their transition to the workforce.
Every professional has their own deep personal reasons for entry, such as a maternity retur...
Guest post by Wendy Samuelson.
Just because you start a divorce action, does not necessarily mean that you will go to trial. If you settle the custody and financial issues of your case, thereâs no need for a trial, and your divorce can be processed on papers alone without having to testify in court...
The Holiday Season is upon us, often the most stressful time of the year for people in general and particularly so for those contemplating, in the midst of, or post divorce.
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Simply surviving your first holiday season intact and eventually enjoying emotionally healthier holidays entails a shift o...
By Karen McMahon
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We can get so entrenched in being part of a âunitâ when married that we lose ourselves. If our spouse is the dominant one, we may have fallen into a pattern of acquiescing to his/her desires and demands. If there are issues of anger management, abuse, addiction or control, we ...
By Bernadette M. Smith, MCC
Going through a divorce is hard, but that doesnât mean life after divorce has to be difficult too. In fact, life after divorce can be filled with joy, peace, and personal fulfillment.Â
Here are four empowering ideas you should keep in mind as you begin building a new l...