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Two Vital Steps To Take When Entering Divorce divorce tips entering divorce vital steps Jan 27, 2016

By Karen McMahon


 

If you are in the early stages of divorce there are two vital steps that you must take to prepare for this challenging transition.

Educate Yourself

The Legal Process:
We experience so many changes and have to make many decisions during divorce, it is essential to learn all th...

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Co-parenting Post Divorce - Turning Challenges Into Opportunities children and divorce coparenting difficult ex post divorce Nov 19, 2015

By Karen McMahon


Co-parenting in contentious relationships creates additional challenges above and beyond those discussed in Part 1 of this series, Co-parenting Post Divorce:  Tools & Strategies.

 

Take Off Your Armor and Put Down Your Sword

You may have been fighting for months or years over ...

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My New Reality Is Not What I Feared divorce support group finding love new beginnings new future possibility after divorce post divorce trusting Nov 10, 2015

By Suzanne, Journey Beyond Client


In many ways the routine of life is the same, but I am happier, empowered, and more independent. I am doing things and going places that I didn't do for 11 years because my ex wouldn't or I was too afraid to ask and be rejected by him.  In the last two years, I h...

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Co-parenting Post Divorce children and divorce compromise post divorce coparenting living in separate homes post divorce Nov 05, 2015

By Karen McMahon


Many challenges of co-parenting post-divorce are universal whether you have an amicable divorce or not. Other more unique challenges are faced by those emerging from a contentious divorce and custody battle.

The key to peaceful co-parenting post-divorce lies in keeping the focus...

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Forgiveness Replaced Fear And Hurt divorce support fear forgiveness hurt Oct 14, 2015

By Jackie, A JBD Client


Sadly, I knew very early on that my marriage was in trouble.  There were small, short lived breakthroughs in our time together but I frequently had a feeling more was amiss; what...I did not know. Counseling was not bearing fruit. My fun loving always gregarious, thoughtfu...

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Finding Room for New Happiness career divorce emotions happiness Oct 12, 2015

Guest Post By Nancy Lay King


What is divorce like at 56 years old? I believe divorce at any age is devastating. It’s the absolute stopping point for believing in the idealism of a committed relationship, in my case, one that had existed for over half of my life. It is the loss of one identity whi...

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Playing with Possibility - An Exercise in Manifesting manifesting possibility post divorce visioning Oct 07, 2015

By Karen McMahon


 

Setting a clear conscious desire to manifest what you desire around work, relationships, homes and life and then celebrating the results is brilliantly empowering! This exercise requires that you suspend doubt, limiting beliefs, worry about making money or being young enough, ...

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My Ideal Home believe dreams faith ideal home Oct 06, 2015

By Geri, JBD Client


I was in the throes of my divorce battle, emotionally tossed and turned inside out with every new discovery that emerged from the shadows about my ex’s betrayal of our 21 year marriage and his secret life.  And, as the divorce process usually spirals from emotional to financia...

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My Ideal Life divorce ideal life journey life after divorce Sep 30, 2015

By Patty, a JBD Client


I asked a good friend of mine if she had a good day last Friday and she replied 'it was okay, I'll forget it'...and that got me thinking. I want ALL my days to count. No more going through the motions, day in and day out, spending my time doing life-draining tasks because I...

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Unearth Your Deepest Desires: An exercise in heart-centered new beginnings desires of the heart dreams exploration healing possibility after divorce Sep 27, 2015

By Karen McMahon


During my years of coaching I have been fascinated at how often as adults we forget how to dream.  When asked what their ideal is where a job, relationship, home or life, clients more often than not, “I don’t know”.  When we dig deeper, most discuss what they don’t want and that ...

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Laughs, Lessons and Longings While Dating dating dating and divorce divorce lessons online dating Sep 02, 2015

By: Karen McMahon


 

I have been learning about myself as I begin to navigate the world of online dating.  I have entered this experience committed to watching where my thoughts take me and what happens when my judgments and fears arise.

I have learned that I am slow at this dating game.  That i...

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The Online Dating Game acceptance attitude awareness change creating healthy relationships dating dating game divorce emotions encouragement getting out hope inspiration loneliness love meeting people new beginnings online dating positive thinking relationships Jul 14, 2015

By: Karen McMahon


Recently single again, I have watched my reluctance to get back into the dating game.  In examining my resistance, limited beliefs and fears as they came up, I realized how many of us go through similar struggles.  I plan to share parts of my journey with you in the hopes of ope...

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